Failing well, or having a growth mindset, can help us become who God created us to be!
Crystal and Joseph discuss failing well. The difference between having a growth mindset and having a fixed mindset is the difference between being able to grow from failure and being crushed/defined by failure. How we identify ourselves, and what we allow our identities to get wrapped up in also gets tangled into the topic.
The book we referenced is called Mindset by Carol Dweck:
https://www.amazon.com/Mindset-Psychology-Carol-S-Dweck/dp/0345472322/ref=nodl_